What "I'll Look Into It" Actually Means

This one's for the guys.

If your partner has brought up a vasectomy more than once, you've probably said some version of "yeah, I'll look into it."

Maybe you meant it. Maybe you even Googled it once. And then nothing happened.

I've been talking to men about this for 35 years. Here's what I think that phrase usually means.

It's usually not about information

Most men who stall on a vasectomy aren't missing facts. They've seen the videos. They know it's quick. They know it's safe.