A lot of men get to "yes" on a vasectomy and then just... stall.
Not because they changed their mind. Because figuring out who to trust with the actual procedure feels overwhelming. So they put it off.
That hesitation makes sense. And honestly, it's worth taking seriously.
I post videos about vasectomy regularly, and the comments are full of men who went through with it and still aren't right. Chronic discomfort. Pain that didn't go away. Experiences that didn't have to go that way.
Choosing the right doctor isn't complicated. But it does require asking a few questions most men never think to ask.
Here's what I'd tell my own brother.