A lot of men come to me having already decided.

They've done the research. They've thought it through. They're ready.

And then I ask one question that stops some of them: does your partner feel the same way?

Sometimes the answer is yes, and they've talked it through together. But sometimes there's a pause. And that pause tells me more than anything else in the conversation.

It's Your Body, But It's Both of Your Futures

A vasectomy is a decision about your body. Nobody else's hands are involved.